n. confidence; trust | n. possibility
Pain changes people, it makes them trust less, overthink more, and shut people out. There are many things in life that putting your trust is and will always be there, especially when you are about to make decisions. Have you ever asked yourself about trusting someone? Trust whatever life might bring you? Trust the people around you? Or even trust yourself? Are you getting the same answer? It’s hard, isn’t it?
People might think that you’re too weak not to engage your trust in something, or maybe to someone. But what if you’re in too much pain? Nightmares happened. Tried so many times. Gave those people the chance that they don’t even deserve. Will it still be called a weakness?
It is hard to trust when all you have from the past is evidence of why you shouldn’t. Forgiving isn’t the hard part, it’s you trusting again.
The serendipity where you’re finding something good without looking for it is like a happy accident with hints of luck. That no matter what you’ve been through, pain and happiness, through darkest and vivid times, wrong people and the right one—chances will always be there. Along with that is the lesson that you’ve learned to make you a better and strong person.
The beautiful part is you don’t have to push yourself so hard with everything. You fell ten times, stand up 11 times. Still, don’t be afraid to trust and give chances. Life is short. And when you’re already with someone who can make you feel that you are their everything, that person will do anything for you and will stay through the difficult times and will love you endlessly.. stay and love each other with no limits.